At times, some of us feel that it is necessary to talk about our personal life; more importantly, our sex life. While some of us might be willing to share all of the intimate details that occur in our bedroom, should we be obligated to tell our friends? So many of us entertain our friends by telling them all of the exciting sex games we’ve played with our mate; but let us be honest, although these stories are exciting and fun to share, a lot of you are telling fairy tales. I get it; we all have to uphold a certain sexual status, so we portray the things that we wish we were doing to appear as if they were the truth! But regardless of what some of you actually do, why do our friends interrogate us as if we have to tell them about our bedroom stories?
The friendship boundaries which exist between private and public matters have now been broken. Friends are no longer hesitant about asking you what you have done with so and so literotica. They want to know every detail; that is, who, when, where, and what! Face it-your sex life is no longer private! If you don’t believe me, just tell your friends you had a date last night. You shouldn’t be surprise if the questions make you feel uncomfortable.
Are there any benefits from telling your friends about your sex life? Last time I checked, your friends didn’t have a front row seat to the show in your bedroom. Unless you are having trouble in that area of your relationship, I can’t see the benefits. Your sex life is not a novel written by Shakespeare; it does not need a study group! I’ll tell you about last night if I want you to know about it, but I see no reason why I should answer your questions if I didn’t put the topic up for discussion.
You see, once you start telling, your friends expect you to speak every time you have a situation. I tend to fall in the category of-nothing happened-whether or not something did. I could care less about the mockery that comes with telling my friends that nothing happened because it is none of their business. I feel that the things that happen between the women that I come in contact with are for them and me. I don’t mind sharing if I’m willing to tell, but I’m grown-I shouldn’t be questioned! Truthfully, a gentlemen never kisses and tell; my plan is to remain as one, therefore, my lips are sealed. Any question revolving around the intimate details of my night is not on the menu until I make it available.
Friends are no longer just friends; your friendships and relationships are now destined to be together. Your love life, your last night, and most importantly, your sex life are no longer private matters. But then you wonder, shouldn’t your friends know everything? It sure feels like they should…I mean, how do you put limits? Are you even allowed to put borders around a friendship? I’ve seen some friends lose some great girlfriends because another friend wanted to taste and experience the same stories that he was telling. I don’t mind telling what I’ve done in the bedroom, but I’m not willing to spill the names of the females to all of my friends. If the female that I play with chooses to tell our mutual friends, then that’s her deal. My deal is simple: my bedroom stories are not currently on the market!
If you want your friends to have images of your sexual stories every time they see your significant other, then make your bedroom play public property. I’ll listen to your stories and give you an advice when you ask me, but I will never ask you about the details! I just think that we should respect the person that we are sleeping with-am I wrong? Do you feel that you should keep your bedroom stories private?